Ashley and Neil

by ahewitt20 on February 7, 2012

in Black and White

Black girl White guy couple

I am a 20 year old black women and my Fiancé is a 23 year old white male. We get stared at EVERYWHERE we go, no matter what.

As an interacial couple, we’ve learned how to shun racism and prejudice by staring back, kissing infront of our haters, or ignoring them all together .We’ve come to realize that people only stare if they’re jealous or if they disagree with our realtionship. Don’t worry about the haters,instead smile at them and keep it movin’.Hope that helps!

{ 11 comments… read them below or add one }

bribrady June 12, 2014 at 11:50 pm

My parents are from Costa Rica I also have French in me, people also think I am very sexy, exotic and a curvy husband is Scottish/Irish and also very handsome. Our son is gorgeous with blond hair and green eyes! We love to travel and have traveled extensively. Mixed couples are the best, they rule! Nice couple, the children will be gorgeous.

NeytiriBlack September 30, 2012 at 7:58 am

Yall are beautiful, lose the lace front wig, natural hair is beautiful.

1report July 6, 2012 at 8:05 am

Well im staring at yall right now, but im not jealous. I just think yall are a very extremly cute couple. Stay together forever. Okay! Forever. I love for black women to date outside their race, for some reason it just seems better that way. Black women are really nice people but alot of black men seem to not appreciate them. Oh well their loss. Take more pics yall. Both of u look stunning.

sherry37 May 20, 2012 at 4:30 pm

Ashley & Neil,
You two look Amazing…You are very Pretty and Neil is very Handsome. I usually do not leave comments, but when I saw the two of you, it reminded me of my relationship. I am Caucasian, and my husband is Puertorican…and we have been together for 22 years now. And believe me, we have got ALL KINDS of “looks” and “stares” from ALL kinds of people. I remember when I was in the hospital having a miscarriage, and after everything was done,(I’m nt going into details b/c it was emotional & hurtful experience) we walked out of the hospital room and there to my left, in the hallway was a Spanish woman and her Mother …and as we walked passed them they looked at me and him and the woman told her Mother in Spanish..”Didn’t I tell you she would be “White”…and she rolled her eyes back in her head. I guess she “thought” I didn’t know what she was saying, but I let it go because we had just lost a baby …and at the time my feelings of loss were way MORE over whelming then anger so I let it go.
But anyways…my point is..we have been together for 22 years now..which is WAY LONGER then many couples who are the SAME RACE. Plus , that woman who made that comment in the hospital…her Mom was with her but my question is…”Where was her Man?”….was she jealous because mine was with me? who knows…
I HOPE you BOTH have MANY wonderful years together! And again, so what if they stare….You guys look GREAT together! Sincerely, Sherry

yani marks May 3, 2012 at 4:06 am

beautiful couple and i totally feel you my bf is black n my white … n that happens to us as well but like he says just look the positve side of it…

Rosa April 20, 2012 at 7:32 pm

I would like to think people stare at you for two reasons: 1. Both of you are so beautiful. 2. They can see/feel the love. Two things everyone wants. Have a happy wonderful life.

ahewitt20 February 10, 2012 at 3:43 am

Hi Nay K,
This is Ashley Hewitt. I just wanted to say that I appreciate your comment, it’s very open-mined ; As we all should be 🙂

afro_ukrainian February 7, 2012 at 6:46 pm

we to get the stares on the street from passer by’s and mumbles from older generation who disapprove.but its just makes us stronger as a couple xx

Nay K. February 7, 2012 at 4:46 pm

Tues, 7 Feb 2012

I do not know if Ashley or Neil will read this, but I just your photo on the site and I want you both to know that I also sometimes stare at obviously interracial couples (black&white,white & Asian,black & hispanic or asian)

I stare because I am so happy to see them together as an interracial couple. To me that means that they have an open heart and open mind and that is the way God and Jesus Christ sees people. Everyone on on this site are beautiful mixed couples of men and women and it’s a beautiful thing chocolate loves vanilla and vice versa, chocolate loves cinnamon too.

I hope the two of you and every mixed couple on this site last until they leave the planet in death. Check out the web site of NKD: Miami {Little Cuba} Florida

NeytiriBlack September 30, 2012 at 7:57 am

Nice, thanks for letting us know, been in situations like that.

bribrady June 13, 2014 at 12:01 am

Vanilla also loves Caramel and Green tea meaning I have dated many gorgeous white guys and Latin guys that look white and also marries a gorgeous white guy. They love sexy Latina women and sexy Asian women as well. I know tons of mixed couples that are Latin/White and Asian/White. Mixed couples are awesome!

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